The opportunity here is to be generous, creative and supportive with people who are in exactly the same position as you….

1. Questioning their options.
2. Looking for solutions.
3. Measuring the unmeasurable.

A “clever” man once said:
“I don’t know what I don’t know”.

If you don’t know what you don’t know, then you are probably admitting defeat, or at best ignorance.
The challenge is for us to hunt out what we don’t know and create a solution, or find someone who understands, or in fact ask a different question.